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My #1 Dating Rule


Ever since I started dating after my divorce, friends and readers have asked a bunch of fun questions. Like, what do you wear on first dates?” (This shirt, almost always.) Or, how long do you wait to sleep with people? (A while.) And a reader named Malena recently asked: “Do you have an intention for dating? Is it ‘Let’s see what’s out there’ or ‘I’m looking for my next husband’?”
Such a good question! And I have an answer! (I’m also curious, if you’re single, to hear yours.)
When I first began dating this past spring, my friend Andy encouraged me, “Go date different guys and have fun!” I quickly found, however, that while dating multiple people can be exciting, it may be more of a “good for her, not for me” situation. What I’m looking for, I realized, is a long-term partner. I’ve dated four guys since February, each lovely in their own way, and I love that feeling of getting to know someone and their breakfast habits and kissing style and funny quirks, and developing inside jokes and a shared language, for however long it lasts.
In the past, I’ve loved being in relationships, and for a long time, I loved being married. Remember this reader comment? “My husband and I lay in bed a couple nights ago and laughed and laughed and laughed and I couldn’t even tell you what about,” wrote Lauren. “We looked absurd in our matching mouth guards and disgustingly old pajamas, and the next day he texted me, ‘I keep thinking about laughing with you last night.’” Gahhh! The sweetest. And this romantic poem makes my heart swell.
These days, when seeing someone, I try to keep my mom’s long-time advice in mind: in any conversation, try your best to say what you really mean, even if it’s embarrassing or scary or vulnerable. The surprising thing is that, no matter what you say, you will then come across as brave and relatable. There’s something inherently lovable and worthy of respect when someone expresses how they truly feel, don’t you think?
So, with any guy I’m dating, if we’re having a more serious talk, I’ll push myself to say what I really want, feel, worry about, etc. Because, after all, why even have a conversation if you don’t? Otherwise, you’re both just saying random things.
For example, one man I dated was pretty newly divorced. In our early texts, before going on our first date, here’s how we discussed it:
Me: Can I ask you a q?
Him: Absolutely.
Me: I know you are so early on in your split
Those early days are so intense
Just curious what your headspace is these days
Like, do you feel up for dating?
I would imagine you might be in the drinks-and-sex part of your journey
Which is fun and great and head-clearing, but I’m not really looking for just that
Him: That is a great and valid question.
We ended up seeing each other for a couple months, and it was really nice, and I was glad I was straightforward about my feelings. It’s not easy, but it feels worth it?

So! I’m curious: What are you looking for, if you’re single? What are you looking for, if you’re partnered? Do these things shift for you? I’d love to hear…
P.S. Five things that surprised me about my divorce, what it felt like to have sex for the first time after divorce, and my sister’s brilliant dating tip.
(Photos by Christine Han.)
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DJIs Mini 5 Pro drone just hit its lowest-ever price at Amazon — buy for under $700 this weekend
SAVE $76: As of July 25, the DJI Mini 5 Pro is down to $683 at Amazon — a 10% discount and its lowest-ever price.
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The DJI Mini 5 Pro is on sale for for $683 at Amazon, down from $759. That’s the best price we’ve ever seen.
It’s built for beginners but doesn’t skimp on features. You also get a 20-kilometer transmission range, so you can fly it well beyond what most starter drones allow.
The DJI Mini 5 Pro packs a lot into a small drone — it folds up palm-sized and slips into a pocket, and it comes with 42 GB of built-in storage. The camera has a 1-inch sensor (bigger than what most drones this size use), which means your 4K footage looks sharp and the colors come out looking real, not washed out.
For creative shots, the gimbal can flip to true vertical and rotate up to 225 degrees, so you can capture angles that many beginner drones can’t pull off. It’s also safer to fly as it uses LiDAR and vision sensors to detect obstacles from every direction, which matters if you’re flying at night or letting it auto-return home.
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Battery life is solid too — you get up to 36 minutes per flight, and if you buy extra batteries, the charger can fully charge three of them in under two hours. It comes with everything you need to fly right out of the box: the drone itself, the remote controller, one battery, and spare propellers.
Grab the DJI Mini 5 Pro for $683 this weekend.
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The Hello Nancy Lem vibrator is the perfect summer treat
If you’re a Woman on the Internet, you’ve probably seen the Hello Nancy Lem come across your feed in one form or another — either as a “wellness” ad or in a full-on TikTok review by a sex educator/influencer.
It’s the toy of the season (IMO), and it’s everywhere. I honestly haven’t seen a vibrator get this much attention since the Rose (you know the one) came out. And, like the Rose, dupes are now flooding the internet, but we’re interested in testing the real product.
That said, not all toys are as good as a company’s marketing budget (that’s an understatement). If you’re wondering if the Hello Nancy Lem is as good as they say it is, I’ve done the research and hands-on testing to give you an honest review.
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Why should you listen to me? I’ve been testing, reviewing, and covering sex tech for years. My office is basically a makeshift sex shop, I have a certificate from Sextech School, and probably most importantly, I have endometriosis, interstitial cystitis, and occasional vaginismus spasms — so I am adamant about finding the best toys for people with pelvic pain in addition to my usual service journalism.
What is the Hello Nancy Lem?
If your algorithm hasn’t served you the Lem on a carousel or 15-second hype video yet, let me introduce you.
The Lem is a clitoral massager that looks like a lemon (hence the name). It has 12 intensities and patterns, is made of medical-grade silicone (hallelujah), and has a noise level of Hello Nancy website, the Lem is slightly quieter than a refrigerator’s hum at its lowest setting (~35–40 dB) and just a hair louder than “light rainfall” at max speed (

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It’s also IPX7-rated, which means it’s waterproof, and it comes with either a magnetic charger or a Type-C port, depending on when you ordered. I actually have both versions; the one with the “flap” has a C-port charger, and the one without the “flap” has the magnetic charger. (Both are 100 percent waterproof!)
What’s in the box?
You’ll obviously get the Hello Nancy Lem Clitoral Massager, a satiny pink storage pouch, a little packet of helpful cards (a starter guide with a QR code to help you set up your toy, a 10 percent discount code that you can give to a friend, tips for getting in the mood, and a quick care guide), and of course, the charger. Note: You will not get a charging block, which isn’t a dealbreaker but something to consider since the end of both the magnetic charger and the C-charger is a USB.
Your Lem may also come with a packet of lube and some toy cleaner (I believe my first Lem did; that was around the time it became popular).
How does the Hello Nancy Lem work?
The Lem is easy to use, and both versions only have one button. If you have the USB-C version of the toy, the button will actually look like a button; if your toy has a magnetic charger, the “button” will look like an “N.”
Just hold the “N” (or button) down until the toy vibrates once to activate it, then press it to access the first setting. The only downside to having one intuitive control is that it’s impossible to go back to a previous setting; you have to cycle through all of them to get back to the start.
The intensities range from a Level 1, which Hello Nancy describes as “gentle,” and a level 7-8, which is “intense.” Patterns 9-12 are rhythmic, so if you prefer some variety, those might be for you. I personally just like to keep it at a steady pace and slowly work my way towards climaxing.

It really is just a tiny, non-threatening lemon.
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Before your solo sesh, go ahead and charge your Lem to 100. It’ll take about 90 minutes (or less, considering it comes with a little bit of juice right out of the box). Once it’s fully charged, experiment! There’s nothing worse than placing a literal sucker on your clitoris and just waiting to see what happens. Get familiar with the controls, cycle through the settings, and feel the suction on a non-sexual body part like your arm or stomach before touching your sweet bits.
You don’t have to use lube, but lube does make everything better (despite the bad rep it gets on the streets; needing/wanting lube isn’t a failure!). If you do decide to use lube, use a water-based one. Oil, silicone, and alcohol-based products will degrade your toy.
Start slow and gradually increase the intensity to see what works best for you. Again, the toy is waterproof, so if you have roommates or just like playing in the bath/shower (I definitely did this during college!), you can take it in there without worrying about breaking it.
Here’s what I think about the Hello Nancy Lem Clitoral Massager
The Hello Nancy Lem is ideal for a few different scenarios: anyone who prefers clitoral stimulation over penetration, anyone who wants a powerful clit sucker that’ll give them a run for their money while using a penetrative toy (dual-stimulation for the win), or anyone who experiences pelvic pain and just can’t handle penetration.
The Lem will give you sweet, sweet butterfly kisses on your vulva until you turn it up, and then it’s like ohhh. You could honestly play with it for hours if you can control yourself, or if you want to have multiple orgasms. It’s also great for foreplay if you have trouble getting wet before sex (I do, thanks to my many pelvic conditions and issues). Plus, if you’ve always wanted to squirt, I think this is a great toy to have in your kit.
In terms of ergonomics, I love how it fits in my hand; it’s not too big or too small. It also fits over the clitoris in a way that isn’t awkward or weird. (Sometimes clitoral suction toys just don’t fit, no matter how you position them.) Because of the easy-to-hold shape, I think it’d also be a good pick for someone with arthritis or carpal tunnel (which I also have, LOL).
Personally, I’ve never not come after using the Lem. It can get me there in just a few minutes sans pelvic pain. That said, I think it’s important to note that not having an orgasm doesn’t mean the experience was a failure. As long as it feels good to you and you’re satisfied, playtime doesn’t always have to end in a climax.
Design-wise, it’s completely unassuming and non-threatening. It’s perfect for beginners, college students, or anyone with roommates who doesn’t want a vibrator sitting out. This one is cute enough that you could totally forget it on a nightstand and leave people none the wiser. It’s also TSA-friendly, has a convenient travel lock (just double-press the power button to unlock it), and the drawstring pouch makes it easy to just throw it into a carry-on and go.
What do the reviews say?
I’m obviously not the be-all and end-all, so here are a few “outside” reviews gathered from the Hello Nancy site itself (there are 15K+ reviews) and Reddit:
“GIRLS!!! 🍋🍋🍋🍋 This is THE best clit stim vibe hands down! I’m obsessed. I think about this little Lem way more than I should, and I am using it at least twice a day! The O’s this little baby gives are incredible! The suck is just insane. This Lem turns me into a puddle 🫠 💦”
“Omfg! I bought this thinking ‘it’s just going to be another generic vibrator and nothing much to write about.’ BOY! How wrong was I!? This little piece of ingenuity is the absolute best purchase I’ve ever made. I have never squirted without penetration before, until this! 🫠 Ladies, make sure you put a towel down first! Protect that mattress 🤭”
“Wow… it was absolutely awesome!! I have not dated for a while and have had some health issues. Furthermore, taking muscle relaxants, it was difficult to attain some pleasure, I mean the big O. I did not have great expectations, but….The Lemon was very successful. I highly recommend, and I’m over 70ish!”
“I bought the Lem about two months ago, and I use it daily, sometimes twice a day. I’ve never been able to give myself a clitoral orgasm. Before the Lem, I had a wand, and it never got me there. Being able to actually give myself an orgasm has been life-changing to say the least! My husband jokingly said great..now you don’t need me anymore.”
So, is the Hello Nancy Lem worth it?
If you’re new to sex toys, struggle with pelvic pain, are perimenopausal or menopausal, have had issues orgasming in the past, or cannot tolerate penetration, the Hello Nancy Lem is definitely worth trying. It’s also really good for foreplay and getting warmed up.
But, if you’re someone who’s used to intense clitoral suction (e.g., you’re an experienced user), you might want to try Satisfyer or Womanizer first. At $89 (that’s with the on-page discount), the Lem’s price point is also higher than the Satisfyer (currently retailing for around $55 on its website) and several versions of the Womanizer, including the new $59 “Peach Toy,” though that’s currently sold out. So keep that in mind when purchasing, too.
The Hello Nancy Lem, although I think it’s intense, might not be strong enough for some power users, according to a few Redditors. But for me? A cute, whisper-quiet little lemon that guarantees an orgasm without triggering my endo is worth every single penny of that $89.
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How to pre-order Samsung Galaxy Z Fold 8, Z Flip 8: See preorder deals
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New Samsung phones are here. At Samsung Galaxy Unpacked 2026, three new phones were announced: the Galaxy Z Flip 8, Galaxy Z Fold 8, and Galaxy Z Fold 8 Ultra. The new phones are successors to the Z Flip 7 and Z Fold 7, so if you’re ready for a new phone, get ready to pre-order these devices.
We’ve been anticipating the new models for weeks, vetting rumors of what’s to come with the latest foldables. Now that we’re here, we can finally confirm exactly which models are available and just how much each will cost.
Galaxy Z Flip 8, Z Fold 8, and Z Fold 8 Ultra pricing breakdown
Here’s the pricing breakdown:
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Galaxy Z Flip 8 (pink, graphite, cream, mint) — starting at $1,199
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Galaxy Z Fold 8 (lavender, graphite, cream, pistachio) — starting at $1,899.99
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Galaxy Z Fold 8 Ultra (violet shadow, graphite, cream, green shadow) — starting at $2,099.99
Both the Z Flip 8 and Z Fold 8 Ultra are $100 more than last year’s models; no surprise in the face of the global memory crisis. All of the new models are up for pre-order as of July 22 and will be available Aug. 7.
If you’ve previously owned the Z Flip and Fold series, the successive models are slightly different. So here’s what you need to know about the new Samsung smartphones.
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About the Galaxy Z Flip 8

The Galaxy Z Flip 8 is the successor to the Z Flip 7.
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The Galaxy Z Flip 8 is the successor to the Z Flip 7. It folds down into a pocket-sized square, flipping open to a 6.9-inch Dynamic AMOLED display. The display is phenomenal and extremely impressive; the crease of the phone is indistinguishable when flipped open. It comes with a dual-lens camera with up to 10x zoom and 4K video at 60 fps. It has 12GB of RAM (more than some computers) and either 256GB or 512GB of storage space.
The Z Flip 8 comes in four different colors: pink, graphite, cream, and mint (online only). It starts at $1,199.99.
About the Galaxy Z Fold 8

The dimensions of the Galaxy Z Fold 8 are suspiciously close to the leaked foldable iPhone.
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Apple has yet to release a foldable iPhone, but Samsung has already come out with a phone destined to compete. Rumors were floating about this model, with some thinking it would be called the Galaxy Z Fold Wide. Now we know it’s actually the Galaxy Z Fold 8, a new model with a fullscreen ratio of 4:3.
It’s a midrange option between the Z Flip 8 and Z Fold 8 Ultra, with a 5.5-inch folded screen and a 7.6-inch full-size screen. Like the Flip, it has a dual lens camera, but is able to film in up to 8K at 30 fps. You can go for models with 12GB of RAM and either 256GB or 512GB of storage, or a model with 16GB of RAM and 1TB of storage.
The Z Fold 8 starts at $1,899.99. It comes in lavender, graphite, cream, and pistachio (online only).
About the Galaxy Z Fold 8 Ultra

The successor to the Z Fold 7 is the Z Fold 8 Ultra.
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If you’ve previously seen or used the Z Fold 7, its successor is the new Galaxy Z Fold 8 Ultra. It’s the largest phone among all of Samsung’s foldables with a 6.5-inch cover screen and an 8-inch full screen. It’s the only foldable with a three-lens camera, letting you film in up to 8K with 3x optical and 30x space zoom.
The Galaxy Z Fold 8 Ultra comes in violet shadow, graphite, cream, and green shadow (online only). It starts at $2,099.99.



