Fashion
Life Lessons From 13 Years Of Blogging
This week we published our 3000th blog post on my blog, and it’s incredible to think that some of you may still be reading after 13 years of daily blogging. Naturally, I’ve learned a thing or two over this much time and dedication. As I reflected on my biggest learnings, I realized that committing to one idea—blog every day (every weekday to be specific, though we often post on the weekends too)—has completely changed me. I believe these lessons can resonate with everyone, so I hope you enjoy reading them. Thank you so much for being part of my journey.
1. Consistency + Volume = Growth
The real value of consistency lies in how it drives growth and improvement. By committing to showing up every day, you’re constantly pushing your boundaries and honing your craft. The sheer volume of work you produce over time allows you to see progress, identify strengths, and improve in ways you couldn’t achieve through sporadic efforts.
2. Algorithms shift, but connecting authentically stays key
While social media and search algorithms evolve constantly, the need to connect with your audience on a human level remains the same. Prioritizing authenticity and engagement over chasing trends is always a sound strategy.
3. If it’s not a “Hell, Yes!” it’s a “No”
Time and focus are your most valuable resources. If a project, idea, or collaboration doesn’t excite you, it’s better to pass on it. Saying “no” to things that don’t serve you allows you to invest fully in the things that do.
4. Learn to do everything yourself, then ask for help when you become the bottleneck
In the beginning, knowing how to handle every aspect of your blog is empowering and helps you understand the process deeply. But as you grow, recognize when your involvement is slowing things down and don’t hesitate to delegate.
5. Have a partner that’s invested in your success
A partner, whether personal or professional, who believes in your vision is essential. Their support and feedback can help you stay motivated, and having someone invested in your journey makes the wins sweeter and the challenges easier to face.
6. Own as many of your channels as possible
Relying solely on platforms you don’t control (like social media) is risky, as algorithms and policies can change overnight. Owning your channels—such as your website, email list, or podcast—gives you full control over how and when you engage with your audience, ensuring long-term stability.
7. Spend lots of time and money on branding and design
First impressions matter, and your blog’s branding is often the first touchpoint for your audience. Good design and a clear brand identity build trust and make your content more accessible and attractive.
8. Falling into habits is OK. Being unwilling to break them is not
Routines can be helpful in maintaining consistency, but they shouldn’t become restrictive. Being flexible and open to changing habits when needed is key to growth and staying relevant.
9. Understand the business you’re in and where you fit in it
You can’t just blog in a vacuum. Understand the broader industry, your competition, and how you add unique value. Knowing where you fit helps you make smarter strategic decisions about your content and growth.
10. Connect with a bigger mission
Blogging can be draining over time, especially if it’s purely self-serving. Connecting your work to a larger purpose or mission gives you a sense of fulfillment and direction that keeps you going even on tough days.
11. Experiment, track, and tweak. It’s the only way to know why you got better
You won’t improve without deliberate experimentation. Constantly testing new ideas and analyzing what works helps you refine your approach and understand what drives your success. Try to take an analytical approach.
12. Big goals push you to grow and achieve more.
Pursuing ambitious goals, like launching a product or collaborating with a brand, forces you to stretch beyond your comfort zone. These larger initiatives come with obstacles and deadlines that push you to grow, stay disciplined, and ultimately achieve more than you would through small, incremental efforts alone.
13. Reinvent yourself boldly
Growth often requires change, and evolving your content or direction can sometimes result in losing followers who no longer resonate with your new focus. However, following your natural changes can attract a new, more aligned audience. The key is to embrace this evolution rather than staying stuck out of fear of losing people who may no longer be a fit.
Fashion
New Arrivals Worth Clicking Into Right Now
Outfit Details:
Sea NY Vest, Dries Van Noten Pants, Lizzie Fortunato Bag (sold out, similar here), Bottega Veneta Sandals (similar here), Sherman Fields Necklace
There’s something quietly satisfying about discovering new arrivals just as they land—before they’re everywhere. This latest mix leans into the ease of resort wear, with silhouettes and textures made for upcoming travels and warm-weather days ahead. It’s a blend of pieces that feel current without trying too hard—those that invite a second glance and linger in the wardrobe longer than a season. Whether you’re browsing with purpose or simply in the mood for inspiration, these arrivals are certainly worth a look.
This romantic cotton midi dress features delicate guipure lace trim, scalloped edges, and soft pleating for a feminine, elevated silhouette. Lightweight and detailed, it’s an effortlessly chic choice for everything from garden parties to summer dinners.
This intricate midi skirt features a crochet design with fringe detailing, providing a playful and textured addition to your summer wardrobe.
Fashion
The Chic Sandal Shift: 12 Styles I’m Loving
Rosetta Getty Dress (sold out, similar here), Hermes Scarf (old, similar and here), Prada Necklace (old, similar here and here), Emily P Wheeler Necklace (one of a kind, similar here), Gucci Sandals, Sensi Studio Bag, Irene Neuwirth Earrings (similar here, less expensive here)
Sandals have once again found their place in my wardrobe this season, with styles ranging from crocheted and jelly to leather, metallic, and more. Some are sculptural and bold, others pared back and minimal, but all strike a balance between form and function. I’ve pulled together a mix that works just as well for everyday wear as it does for upcoming travel, with designs that bring a fresh edge to whatever I’m wearing.
These Italian-crafted sandals feature natural raffia construction with slender suede thong straps and a 70mm heel, offering a blend of elegance and comfort. I can already tell these will be my go-to evening shoes this summer.
These sandals boast a unique spherical cork heel and nappa leather construction, blending comfort with high-fashion appeal. The fringe detailing adds a playful touch, making them a standout addition to any summer wardrobe.
Crafted from waterproof TPU, these jelly sandals showcase a minimalist thong design with an adjustable ankle strap and a subtle 1-inch heel. Their sleek silhouette and practicality make them a chic choice for both beach outings and casual city strolls.
Fashion
Favorite Buys Under $200 – Early Summer Edition
Outfit Details:
Mango Top, Skirt, and Bag, Dolce Vita Flats, Similar Necklace
As signs of early summer pick up pace, I’ve been reaching for practical, well-made pieces under $200 that suit the rhythm of busier days and shifting routines. These are thoughtful additions—versatile, unfussy, and well-suited to the months ahead. See below for a selection of current favorites that capture the essence of early summer.
En Saison Dress, Dolce Vita Flats, Saint Laurent Sunglasses, JiaJia Necklace | Janessa Leone Hat (under $200 version here)
These colorful espadrilles feature a natural jute sole and soft fabric upper, complemented by wraparound ankle ties. Handcrafted in Spain, they provide comfort and effortless style for warm-weather days.
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