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Life Lessons From 13 Years Of Blogging


This week we published our 3000th blog post on my blog, and it’s incredible to think that some of you may still be reading after 13 years of daily blogging. Naturally, I’ve learned a thing or two over this much time and dedication. As I reflected on my biggest learnings, I realized that committing to one idea—blog every day (every weekday to be specific, though we often post on the weekends too)—has completely changed me. I believe these lessons can resonate with everyone, so I hope you enjoy reading them. Thank you so much for being part of my journey.

1. Consistency + Volume = Growth

The real value of consistency lies in how it drives growth and improvement. By committing to showing up every day, you’re constantly pushing your boundaries and honing your craft. The sheer volume of work you produce over time allows you to see progress, identify strengths, and improve in ways you couldn’t achieve through sporadic efforts.

2. Algorithms shift, but connecting authentically stays key

While social media and search algorithms evolve constantly, the need to connect with your audience on a human level remains the same. Prioritizing authenticity and engagement over chasing trends is always a sound strategy.

3. If it’s not a “Hell, Yes!” it’s a “No”

Time and focus are your most valuable resources. If a project, idea, or collaboration doesn’t excite you, it’s better to pass on it. Saying “no” to things that don’t serve you allows you to invest fully in the things that do.

4. Learn to do everything yourself, then ask for help when you become the bottleneck

In the beginning, knowing how to handle every aspect of your blog is empowering and helps you understand the process deeply. But as you grow, recognize when your involvement is slowing things down and don’t hesitate to delegate.

5. Have a partner that’s invested in your success

A partner, whether personal or professional, who believes in your vision is essential. Their support and feedback can help you stay motivated, and having someone invested in your journey makes the wins sweeter and the challenges easier to face.

6. Own as many of your channels as possible

Relying solely on platforms you don’t control (like social media) is risky, as algorithms and policies can change overnight. Owning your channels—such as your website, email list, or podcast—gives you full control over how and when you engage with your audience, ensuring long-term stability.

7. Spend lots of time and money on branding and design

First impressions matter, and your blog’s branding is often the first touchpoint for your audience. Good design and a clear brand identity build trust and make your content more accessible and attractive.

8. Falling into habits is OK. Being unwilling to break them is not

Routines can be helpful in maintaining consistency, but they shouldn’t become restrictive. Being flexible and open to changing habits when needed is key to growth and staying relevant.

9. Understand the business you’re in and where you fit in it

You can’t just blog in a vacuum. Understand the broader industry, your competition, and how you add unique value. Knowing where you fit helps you make smarter strategic decisions about your content and growth.

10. Connect with a bigger mission

Blogging can be draining over time, especially if it’s purely self-serving. Connecting your work to a larger purpose or mission gives you a sense of fulfillment and direction that keeps you going even on tough days.

11. Experiment, track, and tweak. It’s the only way to know why you got better

You won’t improve without deliberate experimentation. Constantly testing new ideas and analyzing what works helps you refine your approach and understand what drives your success. Try to take an analytical approach.

12. Big goals push you to grow and achieve more.

Pursuing ambitious goals, like launching a product or collaborating with a brand, forces you to stretch beyond your comfort zone. These larger initiatives come with obstacles and deadlines that push you to grow, stay disciplined, and ultimately achieve more than you would through small, incremental efforts alone.

13. Reinvent yourself boldly

Growth often requires change, and evolving your content or direction can sometimes result in losing followers who no longer resonate with your new focus. However, following your natural changes can attract a new, more aligned audience. The key is to embrace this evolution rather than staying stuck out of fear of losing people who may no longer be a fit.


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Dressed for the Afterglow

Outfit Details: Rixo Dress, Miu Miu Bag, Ancient Greek Sandals, Carolina Bucci Necklace (similar, less expensive here and here)

There’s a specific kind of dressing that only happens as the sun starts to drop. The light goes warm and low, everything picks up a little shine, and I want to be wearing something that catches it.

That instinct is exactly what pulled me toward this Rixo dress. Between the mirrored embroidery and the rainbow watercolor effect, it’s the kind of piece that feels special without trying too hard. Fun, a little dazzling, easy to fall for. This edit follows the same idea. Every piece has some shine, sparkle, or bit of embellishment that comes alive as the day winds down, all in those warm, glowy tones that feel just right for July nights.

Sequin Pouch

Sequins plus pink tassels give this pouch a vivid, party-ready finish.

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Multi Stone Necklace

 The rainbow stones on this necklace add jewelry-box color against sun-warmed skin.

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Silk Halter Top

 Silk draping with its high neckline make this halter top feel striking for golden-hour plans.

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Amazon Sundays: Get Ahead on Back to School

This week’s Amazon Sunday is all about getting ahead on back-to-school supplies while summer is still very much happening. I’m soaking up the last of it, but the first day always has a way of sneaking up right behind me. The idea is to have the necessities prepped and ready to go now, so that when the morning actually comes, the only thing left to think about is packing lunch.

I pulled together the pieces that make the transition feel easier, from a lunchbox that keeps everything fresh to craft supplies and notebooks. Then all the things that keep routines organized, like a label maker, family calendar, and a restock on my favorite stain treater.

Browse the full selection below, and explore more in our JB Amazon Shop and Amazon Storefront, refreshed weekly. 

Personalized Backpack

A personalized backpack makes the first day feel a little more official, and it is one of those pieces that feels just as useful for school mornings as it does for weekend activities. 

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Kids Art Smock

An art smock is exactly the kind of small thing you are happy to have before the projects start coming home, keeping paint, markers, and glue a little more contained from the very beginning of the school year.

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The Matching Set, But Make It Swim

Outfit Details: Montce Bikini & Pants, Eliou Necklace (old, similar here), Janessa Leone Hat, Ancient Greek Sandals, Retrosuperfuture Sunglasses

There is something so satisfying about a matching set, that feeling of being put together head to toe with almost zero thinking required. Swimwear makes an especially good case for it. I love when a suit has a second act, a sarong, a pair of pants, or a linen dress cut from the same print, so the move from pool to lunch barely counts as an outfit change. The last thing I want to think through is an elaborate look when the whole point of the day is relaxing by the water.

 

That is what a set like this solves. It adds polish and intention to beach dressing, building a look full of color and personality that still makes sense for a swim but can carry you through the rest of the day.


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